.the.schedule.

Great many of you have asked whether Nina is eating well, sleeping enough, or crying a lot. So, here is what her schedule on a usual day looks like, you be the judge.

  • 09:00PM Nina takes a bath and goes to sleep.
  • 01:00AM Nina wakes everyone up by screaming as if she hasn't eaten in days, so she gets milk and falls right back asleep.
  • 04:00AM/05:00AM Nina eats again, and then sleeps some more.
  • 08:00AM/09:00AM Nina (you've guessed correctly) is ready for some more milk, so she eats some more. Eventually she falls back asleep. [Occasionally she is awake for hours, just observing the sounds and the lights around her accompanied with occasional whimpers (wake time)].
  • 11:00AM Nina eats some more. [She usually eats about 3-4 fl. oz. (90-120 ml) each time she eats, but it happens that she won't eat this much, then we know that she is going to be up in less than an hour screaming as if she is starving].
  • 11:00AM-09:00PM A mix of naps, cries, wake times, some time outdoors, and some skin time (if daddy is available).
Friends have laughed at us for thinking that babies can have (or will have) schedules, but I am more and more convinced that genetics (i.e. temper) has something to do with living a scheduled life.
We have never forced Nina to have a schedule, we don't (nor will we ever) let her cry hysterically until it is feeding time, just so that she matches our (or some child expert's) expectations of a baby. Her needs right now consist of eating 3-4 fl. oz. (90-120 ml) of milk every four (or so) hours and sleeping. And this is what we are providing, along with dozens of diapers.

Skin time with daddy

6 comments:

Laci and Keri Németh said...

ere is the belly of the daddy?
Lazo

m+m said...

Sziasztok!
Köszi ezt a kis betekintést Nina életébe. :) Szerintem klasszul csináljátok, az én elvem is a Rugalmas Rendszer, amire hiszem, hogy minden gyerkőcnek szüksége van.
Hajrá Nina! :)
Sok puszi:
Melinda és a fiúk

Laci and Keri Németh said...

rule number one:
Never wake up a sleeping baby... if she sleeps she needs it...
rule number two: if its hungry, will LET YOU know...
Rule number three: relax any second you can...

Lazo the rule maker...

liv said...

hey,

just a suggestion: skin time would be better skin to skin! :)

btw, how do you guys know how much she is eating? i know you need to supplement but not all the time, right? (or did i miss something?)

she is a cutie! :D

árpi said...

Dear Lili,

Yes, skin time is supposed to be skin to skin, but what can I do? I am really masculine and I have a lot of chest hair :) Not like your husband :) But he is a man too, yet not quite as manly as I am.

How do we know about eating habits? Well, without going into personal and anatomical details, I will just say that Nina could not be breast fed, so Andi is pumping all the time. This is how we know about her eating habits, and yes, occasionally we have to supplement, maybe about 2 fl. oz. (60 ml) a day.

Grettings to your girls and your manly hubby.

lu said...

hm, sounds like you guys are having lots of fun:) and the picture is priceless. greetings:)